BigW72 wrote:
denisdman wrote:
Nope down to one vote. It sucks.
Nas, I have actually been fixed twice because of that.
Man...that royally sucks. I get fixed 19 years ago. I'm pretty sure I'd know by now if there was a follow-up needed
You're not wrong on the 40 somethings. My 2 year stint of being single did nothing but attract un-happily married women. Once I finally just gave up and figured I'd just be single, I encountered what would become my wife.
Biological women are crazy
Lots of interesting stuff in the dating world over the past four years. Now I was with that brunette (she is 35 now) for 2.5 years of it, so it has really only been 18 months. I will say these things:
-Older women (50 and up) throw themselves at you. They are also extremely defensive about guys my age (49) dating anyone younger. I have not touched anyone older than me although I do not target a certain age group.
-The 40's women, which should really be my main dating pool are messed up. I hung out with two never marrieds, and it is obvious why no one has ever married them. Now they will bang you all day everyday. My favorite story about that is one of them said, "that's the wrong hole but go ahead". Yeah they are that desperate. One was only married once but for about 15 years. She was completely repressed. Then I met one who was pretty hot but married three times. She had married a college division one football player, dated a pro hockey coach, and even dated a Chicago Bears lineman. Thirty minutes into our first date, and after she gave me her fuck list, she said, "I have handcuffs at home, want to come back now." So the four 40-somethings all had major issues.
-The twenty-somethings up here all have kids but never married. So you are dealing with baby daddy issues on top of constant pot use. But they are still in good enough shape to be attractive, and they try very hard. You deal with the PTSD of all their bad relationships, which is the main downside.
-Finding women to date or just hook up with is very easy. I never use a dating app, but rather just hang out in bars and such. I had more women in 2022 than my entire life combined albeit I was married for 24 years and with that person 30 overall. I was easily on pace to surpass that by mid-year 2023 but ended up finding the current GF in late April. By far the best woman I have ever been with all in. Now my ex-wife was awesome- sweet and easy going- but just not into doing anything other than watching the Food Network.
So those are my experiences mainly built up in the last 18 months.